THE PASSOVER SEDER

 

The 14 Steps

 

The Passover meal is called a Seder, which means order in Hebrew, because we go through 14 specific steps as we retell the story of our ancestors’ liberation from slavery in Egypt.

 

1. Kiddush (the blessing over wine) – KADEISH

Kadesh (sanctification) is the first step of the Passover Seder, marking the holiday's start by reciting a blessing over the first of the four cups of wine. The four cups correspond to the four phrases used during the story of the Exodus:

    Cup 1 (Sanctification / Kiddush): Represents "I will bring you out from under the burdens of the Egyptians".

    Cup 2 (Judgment / Naggid): Represents "I will deliver you from their bondage".

    Cup 3 (Redemption / Birkat Hamazon): Represents "I will redeem you with an outstretched arm".

    Cup 4 (Praise / Hallel): Represents "I will take you to be my people".

 

2. Ritual hand-washing in preparation for the Seder – URCHATZ

Urchatz is the second step of the Passover Seder, where participants perform a ritual hand-washing without reciting a blessing.

Preparation: It prepares everyone to handle moist foods—specifically the karpas (vegetable) that gets dipped in salt water.

No Blessing: Unlike the later hand-washing (rachtzah) before eating matzah, no blessing is said here because this washing is a custom rather than a strict obligation for eating bread.

Sparking Curiosity: Doing things differently—like washing without a blessing—encourages children and guests to ask questions about the Seder process.

 

3. Dipping a green vegetable in salt water – KARPAS

Karpas is the third step of the Passover Seder where a green vegetable is dipped in salt water and eaten.

The Vegetable (Karpas): Usually parsley, celery, or boiled potato, it symbolizes spring, new life, and the hope of renewal.

The Salt Water: It represents the tears and sweat shed by the Israelites during their slavery in Egypt.

Spurring Questions: Eaten before the main meal, this unusual practice is designed to spark curiosity and questions from children at the Passover Seder.

 

4. Breaking the middle matzah – MATZAH YACHATZ

Three pieces of matzah bread [unleavened bread] are stacked and wrapped in a linen napkin. Often a prepared pouch that has three separate pockets is used, one piece of matzah bread in each pocket.   

We break the middle matzah while it is still covered by its napkin. The larger portion is wrapped in linen and set aside, to be used as the afikoman [If children are present it may be hidden in another room for the children to find later].

The smaller portion is left between the two remaining matzos, over which the blessing HaMotzi will be recited.

Among Messianic Jews breaking the middle matzah represents the suffering or sacrifice of the middle person of the Trinity. Hiding and wrapping the bread represents burial in a linen shroud. Bringing the bread back out represents resurrection or return.

 

5. Telling the story of Passover – MAGGID

What Happens During Maggid:

The Invitation: It opens with Ha Lachma Anya, holding up the broken matzah and inviting the hungry and needy to join the meal.

The Four Questions (Ma Nishtanah): Traditionally asked by the youngest child, these questions highlight why Passover night is different from all other nights of the year.

The Four Sons: The Haggadah outlines four types of children (wise, wicked, simple, and the one who doesn't know how to ask) to show how to teach the story to different generations.

The Ten Plagues: Participants recite or drop drops of wine for each of the ten plagues sent upon the Egyptians.

Dayenu: A traditional song of gratitude thanking God for all the steps of liberation and kindness shown to the Jewish people.

The Second Cup: The section concludes by drinking the second cup of wine.

 

6. Ritual hand-washing in preparation for the meal – RACHTZA

What We Do:

Fill a cup:

Fill a washing cup or pitcher with clean water.

Pour over hands:

Pour water over your right hand, repeat two more times (or twice depending on custom), and then do the same for your left hand.

Recite the blessing: Lift your hands and say the Blessing for Hand-Washing on Chabad.org (Baruch atah Adonai Eloheinu Melech ha-olam asher kid'shanu b'mitzvotav v'tzivanu al n'tilat yadayim).

Dry and be quiet:

Thoroughly dry your hands with a towel. Traditionally, do not speak from the time you finish the blessing until you recite the blessing over the matzah (Motzi Matzah).

 

7. The blessing over the meal and matzah – MOTZI MATZAH

Motzi Matzah is the seventh step of the Passover Seder, where participants make the standard blessing over bread followed by a unique blessing for eating matzah.

 

How to Perform Motzi Matzah

Lift and Bless: Hold all three matzot and recite the Hamotzi blessing (Baruch atah... hamotzi lechem min haaretz).

Second Blessing: Release the bottom matzah, hold the remaining top and broken middle pieces, and recite the blessing for eating matzah (asher kid'shanu b'mitzvotav, v'tzivanu al achilat matzah). For the full traditional Hebrew texts and translations, please consult the referenced sources.

Eat the Matzah: Distribute portions from the top and middle matzot (supplementing with extra to reach the required kezayit size), and consume it while reclining to the left.

 

8. Dipping the bitter herb in sweet – CHAROSET MAROR

Maror: Bitter herbs, usually freshly grated horseradish or romaine lettuce, that represent the harshness and pain of the enslavement in Egypt.

Charoset: A sweet mixture of chopped fruits (like apples and figs), nuts, wine, and spices that visually and texturally represents the mortar used by the Israelite slaves to build bricks.

The Action: Participants dip the maror into the charoset, shake off any excess so the herb remains primarily bitter, recite a specific blessing, and eat it as part of the ceremonial order of the Seder

 

9. Eating a sandwich of matzah and bitter herb – KOREICH

Koreich is the step in the Passover Seder where participants eat a sandwich made of matzah and bitter herbs.

The Tradition: It honors the practice of the ancient sage Hillel, who wrapped the Passover lamb, matzah, and bitter herbs together during the time of the Holy Temple.

Modern Practice: Because sacrifices are no longer offered, today's sandwich uses pieces of matzah with bitter herbs (like horseradish or romaine lettuce) and often a sweet fruit-and-nut paste called charoset.

The Meaning: Combining the bitter herbs with the sweet charoset and plain matzah symbolizes how bitter hardships can be balanced by freedom and better days.

 

10. Eating the meal – SCHULAN OREICH

Key Aspects of Shulchan Orech The Meal:

There are no specific biblical commandments regarding what to eat during this step, but it is customary to serve traditional festive foods (such as matzo ball soup, brisket, or roasted chicken).

The Matzah: The meal is eaten with the matzah that was blessed and broken during the earlier steps of the Seder (Motzi and Matzah).

The Atmosphere: This step represents joyful celebration and freedom, transitioning the Seder from the historical storytelling of the Exodus into a relaxed, communal feast.

Shulchan Orech concludes when the meal is finished, leading directly into the 12th step, Tzafun, where the Afikomen (the hidden piece of matzah) is found and eaten

 

11. Finding and eating the Afikomen – TZAFOON

Early in the Seder (during Yachatz), the middle of three stacked matzahs was broken in half. The Hiding: The larger piece was wrapped and hidden away to serve as the afikomen. At this point it is retrieved. If children are present they will be asked to find it, and a small gift given to the one who does.

The afikomen is eaten as the final food of the meal, acting as a symbolic replacement for the Korban Pesach (the Passover lamb sacrifice) which was historically eaten last. How it is Eaten: A small piece is distributed to everyone at the table.

 

Symbol of the Lamb:

Historically, the Afikomen takes the place of the original Passover lamb sacrifice (Pesach), which cannot be eaten today without the Temple in Jerusalem.

Messianic Jews see a deep spiritual picture in the Afikomen ceremony. Breaking the middle matzah represents the suffering or sacrifice of the middle person of the Trinity. Hiding and wrapping the bread represents burial in a linen shroud. Bringing the bread back out represents resurrection or return.

When Jesus celebrated the Last Supper with His disciples, He broke unleavened bread, gave thanks, and told them it was His body broken or given for them. The Afikomen is seen as the bread He broke at that time.

 

12. Saying grace after the meal and inviting Elijah the Prophet – BAREICH

What Happens During Bareich

Third Cup of Wine: Before reciting the grace, everyone refills their wine glass, which is then drunk after the blessing.

Grace After Meals: The traditional Birkat Hamazon thanks God for the food, the land of Israel, and the eternal covenant.

Calling on Elijah: During the final part of the grace, a specific prayer asks God to send Elijah the prophet as the herald of the ultimate redemption and the messianic age.

 

          The third cup of the Passover Seder is the Cup of Redemption (also called the Cup of Blessing), and it is the first cup drunk after the main meal is finished. It is poured after everyone finishes eating the festive meal.

It is blessed and consumed right after reciting Birkat Hamazon, the traditional grace after meals.

 

What It Represents

It connects to the third promise of freedom in Exodus 6:6: "I will redeem you with an outstretched arm". It recalls the blood of the Passover lamb that saved the Israelites during the final plague in Egypt.

Many Christian traditions believe Jesus held up this third cup during the Last Supper. He referred to it as the new covenant in his blood because it was taken after the meal.

 

13. Singing songs that praise God – HALLEL

Key Facts About the Hallel:

It contains six consecutive psalms (Psalm 113, 114, 115, 116, 117, and 118)

The word Hallel shares the same root as Hallelujah, which means "praise Yah" or "praise God".

The final hymn that Jesus and his disciples sang together before going to the Mount of Olives is widely understood to be part of the Hallel.

          The fourth cup of Passover is the Cup of Praise (or Hallel), which represents God's fourth promise in Exodus 6:6-7: "I will take you to be My people".

 

Meaning and Tradition Timing:

It is filled and consumed near the end of the Passover Seder, right after finishing the second half of the Hallel (the psalms of praise and gratitude).

The Four Promises: It completes the sequence of the four traditional cups, which map to the four expressions of redemption in the Torah (Sanctification, Deliverance, Redemption, and Praise).

The Fifth Cup: A fifth cup, known as the Cup of Elijah, is often poured on the table but left undrunk, symbolizing future ultimate redemption.

 

14. Ending the Seder and thinking about the future – NIRTZAH

Nirtzah is the final step of the Passover Seder, meaning "acceptance" or "desire", where participants look toward the future and express hope for redemption.

 

What Happens in Nirtzah

Conclusion of Formal Rituals: After reciting the final praises of Hallel, the structured reading of the Haggadah comes to an end.

Songs of Joy: People sing lighthearted, joyful traditional folk songs like Chad Gadya ("One Only Kid") and Echad Mi Yodea ("Who Knows One").

Divine Acceptance: Tradition views this moment as God accepting the prayers and service of the night with favor.

 

The preceding information was gleaned from the internet.